Are we doing Gottman’s four horsemen when we fight?

We want to stay close, but we fight to win.
Why do we fight about the same thing every time?

We both want it settled, but we keep reopening it.

We want to stay close, but we fight to win.

We both want it settled, but we keep reopening it.
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